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How Your Unhealed Trauma Affects Your Relationships

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Trauma can manifest as an emotional wound, damaging your sense of self in an equally painful way. Unresolved emotional trauma causes you to perceive yourself as broken and unlovable, and you unknowingly carry this belief into your relationships. With that said, let’s take a look at how your unhealed.

“They say that love is blind, but it’s trauma that’s blind. Love sees what is.” – [Neil Strauss]

You’re not a bad person, it’s your trauma. Here’s a video all about it: https://youtu.be/L19rogwrnm0

Writer: Syazwana Amirah
Script Editor & Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice: Amanda Silvera (www.youtube.com/amandasilvera)
Animator: Kiara Ledesma
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

References

Concepcion, M., &; Concepcion, M. (2021, July 14). Interpersonal boundaries: How trauma keeps us silent. Lifeworks Psychotherapy. Retrieved May 8, 2022, from www.lifeworkspsychotherapy.com/interpersonal-boundaries-trauma-keeps-us-silent/

Evans, S. E., Steel, A. L., Watkins, L. E., & DiLillo, D. (2014). Childhood exposure to family violence and adult trauma symptoms: The importance of social support from a spouse. Psychological Trauma: Theory, Research, Practice, and Policy, 6(5), 527-536.

Psychology Today. (n.d.). Perfectionism. Psychology Today. Retrieved May 8, 2022, from www.psychologytoday.com/gb/basics/perfectionism

Schaick, K. & Stolberg, A. (2001). The impact of parental involvement and parental divorce on young adults’ intimate relationships. Journal of Divorce and Remarriage, 36(1-2), 99-121. doi:10.1300/J087v36n01_06

Sirota, M. (n.d.). If you struggle to connect with others, it could be due to childhood trauma. Retrieved from marciasirotamd.com/psychology-popular-culture/struggle-connect-others-due-childhood-trauma
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What is the impact of PTSD on committed relationships? | Dr. Julie Gottman

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Dr. Julie Gottman describes the impact of post-traumatic stress disorder on committed relationships. She demonstrates a therapeutic approach that interweaves individual PTSD treatment with Gottman Method Couples Therapy. Learn more about our Treating Affairs and Trauma course: http://bit.ly/2oSUOkV

Visit www.gottman.com for more information.

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